Is your child or young person struggling with school attendance?

At School Can’t Australia we understand the challenges and distress of caring for a child or young person experiencing school attendance difficulties. As Australia’s largest national parent/carer peer support community for school attendance difficulties, we’re here to offer our support, guidance, and a listening ear.

Welcome to School Can’t Australia!

Who Are We

School Can’t Australia (SCA) was established in 2014, in response to the lack of dedicated support services for families whose children and young people are experiencing school attendance difficulties. SCA provides peer support for parents and primary carers through a Facebook group.

SCA is run by volunteers, who are themselves parents and carers of children and young people experiencing school attendance difficulties. Many of our volunteers have qualifications in allied health and teaching.

SCA provides peer advice and support for parents including:

  • Connection and mutual support.

  • A safe space to unpack and make sense of what has happened.

  • Guidance and lived experience knowledge.

  • Building parent/carer well-being.

  • General information and advice on issues relevant to school can’t.

  • An opportunity to help others.

  • Direction to external crisis and emergency support.

  • Direction to resources and support services.

  • Face-to-face and online parent/carer support meetings.

Other activities of the group include:

  • Advocating for the needs of parents, carers, children and young people.

  • Collaborating with researchers and policymakers.

  • Conducting lived experience research.

  • Raising awareness and creating shared understandings of school can’t.

SCA currently has over 10,000 members with almost 2000 members waiting to join the Facebook group. Membership has been doubling in size every year since the group started. We urgently require funding to reduce the long wait times for membership to our group.

How we help

Support

We facilitate a peer support community for parents and carers of children experiencing school attendance difficulties on Facebook. Find our community here: School Can’t Australia

Please note due to high demand there is currently a significant wait time in joining the group. We are working to reduce this delay. Please visit our website again soon, as we will continue to develop new content and resources over the coming months.

Empower

We build parent/carer understandings about school can’t and provide resources that enable them to support their child/young person. Topics include: problem solving, collaboration with schools, alternative education settings, self-compassion, stress, self regulation, co-regulation, mental health, disability, and inclusion.

Our resources will soon be shared here and on our public Facebook page here

Advocate

We provide the lived experience voice of children and young people, and their parents / carers to inform and influence systemic change across education, disability, mental health and welfare services.

Access our submission to the 2022 Australian Senate Inquiry into School Refusal here and our response to the final report here

  • How our members feel they have benefited from our community as shared by members for School Can’t Australia’s Senate inquiry submission

  • With finding this group I found support. We were no longer alone. I was able to learn and change my mindset, understanding and thinking. I became a better advocate and support to my child and was able to rebuild our connection after many years of old hat unhelpful "make her go" advice. Understanding that it's "can't go not won't go" changed our lives and I truly believes saved our child. Our son now benefits from the ongoing support of this group and hopefully his journey will be one without school based and academic trauma.

    Mother of four children, two of whom are autistic with ADHD and experience school can't ages 9 and 17

  • Until I found this group I felt like I was doing something wrong as a parent. The trauma-informed advice here helped me repair my relationship with my children.

    Mum of 2 school can’t teens, diagnosed late with ADHD, anxiety, autism

  • Even as a teacher with 20+ years’ experience, I was still blind-sided by School Can’t. After initially feeling like a failure, I realised how the system is failing so many students, & how much of it is teachers being unaware. This group has been a lifeline of support, encouragement & resources to help shift us from feeling like failures to realising we are not alone & there are many ways through the education maze.

    Mum of 2 School Can’ts, aged 16 & 14.

  • I watched my child’s mental health decline. All the while school was telling me I had to force myself to take my child to school, and make home traumatic so school was more appealing. The icing on this cake was legal threats from the education department for my refusal/inability to force my child. Their mental health is still affected with PTSD from the cruel punishments and treatment from both primary and secondary schools. Exclusion from school camp, exclusion due to disability and staff physically dragging my child from the classroom will linger as trauma for many years.

    Mum to 19 year old diagnosed with ADHD PDA Autism PTSD Anxiety Depression GAD

  • The help from this group meant that my child was able to complete Years 9 and 10 through Distance Education. I learned strategies to cope with the local public school and the Education Department. This Facebook group literally changed my and my child's life for the better. It has also meant that I don't feel so isolated and alone.

    Anon.

  • As a result of this group, when I enter difficult meetings with school, I no longer feel alone. Instead I feel informed, knowledgeable and supported. I am able to use all I have learnt from this group along with their strength to better advocate for my child and to improve their outcomes. The leaders of this group should be considered for citizens awards for what they have done to support so many families and to shed light on this debilitating and stressful issue affecting thousands of Australian children. Without them we would not have come as far as we have in advocating for the health of happiness of these young Australians who are experiencing debilitating distress just trying to attend school like every other child.

    Mum to 8 year old with GAD

Get in Touch!

Parents & Carers may request to join the School Can’t Australia community Here. (Please respond to ALL questions in your application).

Media, professionals, government, researchers and educators can connect with us through the web form or via email: schoolcantaustralia@gmail.com